Red Sky At Night

As last night's sky predicted, today is a beautiful day.  I'm off to make the very most of it.

Grateful Friday

Today I give thanks for...

Miss Bit's banner week of play dates.  She spent time with many different friends and had much fun.

Miss Bit's very own kind idea to go over and introduce herself to the new neighbor girl.  She's a little older (5th grade), but my Bit couldn't stop talking about how nice she was.  And she was.  She even put out her hand for me to shake when I introduced myself.

A teacher meet and greet.  She's no Miss Z., but she'll do.  Miss Bit is easy.  She's any teachers dream.

Fresh veggies from my Aunt and Uncle's garden. and the garden to fridge delivery.

A phone call from my cousin today.  It was so good to hear her voice.  She had the time of a lifetime in Denali National Park, and can now cross another item off her bucket list.  I added it to mine.

Ask and you shall receive:  tickets to this weekend's Badger game tomorrow.  The boys will go cheer on Bucky.  Go Red!

Watching the RNC last night.  It was riveting TV.  So good that we couldn't pull T. Bone away to shower.  About Marco Rubio he said, "Wow!  He's going higher...he's going places." 

Taste testers. Little girlies who lick up every last bit of batter, and then beg for a cookie hot out of the oven.

It was a busy last week of summer vacay, but there was still time to chill.  Shhh...but I have off for the next 5 days.  It's my consolation for surviving the summer!

Personal pan pizzas big enough to share a half slice with Mom.

Tonight we will be graced by a blue moon.  It's once in a blue moon that we have 2 full moons in 1 month, hence the saying.  These pictures are of the almost full moon earlier this week.

Lake Michigan.  We enjoyed our great lake 2 nights this week and Miss Bit was a beach bum again today.
 

She got a brand new bicycle...

And I got a brand new pair of rollerskates....

Guess who this boo boo belongs too?  I'm grateful...me (no knee pads) instead of my girl.  She, of course, kept wishing it were her.

T. Bone's locker is now filled with his school supplies ($150 worth) instead of his sister ($priceless).  And yes she did scream, cry and bang on the door when he shut it and locked her in.  And yes there was a meeting of teachers going on in the room right across the hall.  I'm grateful he remembered the combo!!

Really nice chats with 2 of my Aunts this week and my Dad today.

Jess is on her way over.  It's cocktail hour somewhere my Gramps used to say.  Somewhere happens to be Casa Wags tonight.

13 Reasons I'm Glad Summer's Almost Over

1) They're running out of things to do.  Miss Bit recently stood yelling at the top of her lungs to me at one end of the house from her spot in the yard, "Moooommmm!  MoooMMMMM!  Can I give the cats a bath?"

2) The yard looks like we run a day camp.

3) I won't have to wash an endless stream of cups and glasses every day.

4) I won't have to pay someone to nap and text instead of engage my kids.
 
5) It is time for ice cream to cease and desist as a food group.

6) I will have more time for walks, reading and cooking.

7) The maid, short order cook and chauffeur uniforms will be hung up and I can just be Mom again albeit a Mom who cleans, cooks and drives kids around.

8) Play dates will last a couple rather than 24+ hours.

9) I will have time and the t.v. to myself at the end of the day.

10) The regular line-up returns and we can stop wasting our time on junk t.v. like Big Brother and Honey Boo Boo, which is banned at Casa Wags after 2 viewings.

11)  I got my first couple (and hopefully last couple) mosquito bites last night.

12)  We have a beach vacation to look forward to.

13)  Fall, and specifically October, is my favorite time of the year!!

Decline of Day

Apparently, my enthusiasm for ending the day on the beach from the night before was infectious. Some little sponge fish is listening to me when I wax poetic on how lucky we are to live so near the lake.  Landlocked I could never be, and stepping on her shores, wading in the waves is even more satisfying than reveling from afar.  After the boys shirted (and padded) up for practice early evening, Miss Bit suggested that we girls gear up for the beach.  How could I possibly resist?  Never mind that my girl all but read my mind.  We didn't need much:  towels, a camera and my book.  I  read a single page because what was evolving on the  surface straight before me was more entertaining than any other story.  At the half-light of the late summer day, we were two of just a few enjoying the surf and the shore.  It was a meeting of moments best expressed by the images captured and preserved.  Below I present decline of day....     

Eventide

I just got out of bed and only because the phone rang.  Back to school next week Tuesday is going to be just as painful for me as the kids.  Later nights and lazy mornings have become the cadence of our days.  It's going to take mettle and resolve to rev things up again.

The summer has been better than I expected in many respects, but also beneath my premises on a few. We tried something new with regard to our minimal childcare needs, and it looks like next summer will bring yet more changes.  The only real regret I have is that we didn't take a vacation.  I'm attributing feeling off last week to the fact that I should have been lakeside for the duration.  We seem to always go north the same week of the year, and I truly missed our annual migration.  Never underestimate seasonal pulls.  We will be going south soon so long as Isaac doesn't stay his course or leave too much destruction in his expected wake.

Last night's impromptu evening at the beach club left me feeling ready to relax shoreside so soon.  Our great lake is so much a part of why I love living here even though I admit I don't enjoy her as much as I can and should.  The water is unusually warm and crystal clean this summer, which is like a 100 year occurrence.  I lamented not bringing my bathing suit as soon as I dipped my feet in.  We arrived just at the gloaming so I hurried to capture a few images of the kids in the pale purple light of the last of day.  It's my favorite few minutes between end of day and beginning of night when I feel something deep stir somewhere deep within me.  The stars started to shine signaling they day's subtle expiration.  I didn't mind it at all that I had to stay behind beneath their twinkling and watch my little fish and her friend who wisely chose more swimming over pizza while the rest of the group retreated to the beach house.  The beach by night is alive in so many different respects.  It's enchanting in a way you can only experience.  I sat with my feet dug into the cool sand suspended between the giggles of little girls before me and the rise and fall of  many adult conversations behind me.  Over the chatter, I heard a familiar voice clear as a bell: Aye, and I should complain it said.  He said.  I smiled.  I smiled with my heart.

I came with a tray of gooey good s'mores cookies.  I left with an empty platter and a full heart.  I brought with me a feeling of peace and a sliver of understanding....a pulse on what is right in this world.  The night reminded me to continue showing up.  Showing up for the party, each day, this life.  To plug in and be present.  After all, it was my promise for 2012.  To live one's intentions is a glorious gift.

      

2 day pass

i've been marinating on the weekend.
trying to make peace with it all.
make sense and sensibilities.
what i've decided is that sometimes being switzerland is hard and not very peaceful for me personally.
because the thing is... i hurt when other people hurt.
if i love you, or even like you a little, i can see beyond your flaws, recognize my own and forgive us both.
i just wish that were true for us one and all.
it is not, and i'm grappling with what to do with that.
character is important to me.
very important.
kindness is also right up there.
forgiveness too.
there are many things that many deem more valuable in life that i say are nice...very nice even, but not worth their weight if given penultimate importance.
they pale miserably when measured against the real few true.
so the weekend was full of emotion.
most celebratory and cause for cheer.
i'm trying hard to keep track of those.
to keep them in my sight.
to help make them shine brighter.
it was a weekend of hosting.
many family and friends came through our house, sat at our tables, shared in our days and nights.
we broke bread, or tortillas, toasted with wine, beer or lemonade, played games (some planned and others better never taken out of the box).
togetherness.
that's the way i like it.
that's the marrow of my bones...
the line in my life.
that's the spirit in my soul.
i reconnected with one of my first friends.
she happens to be married to coach's first too.
i laughed with  newer friends, and just simply hung out with my dad and stepmom.
it was goooood and yet i was a wee bit sad.
that's the tenor of these days.
there are things i cannot change even as they change me.
and to thy own self  i must be true.
i'm thinking a thickening of skin is in order.
it'll happen.
it always does.
at a cost,
a distance.
a cheapening of potential.
but the very best of me...of life...seeps through no matter the callous and in spite of the hardening.
it's really what keeps me going.
it tells me that i do embrace what matters in life...usually.
strive to always.
always will.

On My Mind Monday

"It's different now, of course," he said.  "But when we were growing up back there..."  There it was again: the past isn't a time.  It's a place.  A permanent destination: back there. 

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Patricia Hampl

Virgin Time