Monday, February 24, 2014
2 day pass
it was a quiet couple of days.
we're still settling back into reality after a vacation that was out of this world.
so the down time was a good and much needed respite.
turns out that traveling takes as much out of you as it restores within you.
it giveth and it taketh away.
it was back to basics like errands and chores and church and practice.
invigorating walks and home cooked meals instead of skiing and eating out.
watching the olympics instead of feeling like we were in them.
naps and homemade banana bread and loads and loads of laundry.
some screens and a few pages.
plenty of cat cuddles.
they still don't trust that we're here to stay.
we all enjoyed date night saturday.
coach and i had our monthly bowling league.
somehow we are in third place.
the kids went with aunt jess for wings and a movie.
sunday night we sat down for family dinner reminiscing about where we had been one week ago, and also happy to be home.
i fell asleep before brownies and during the closing ceremonies.
and just like that the olympics are over, the weekend is over and february is coming to a close.
time is such a terrible tease.
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Saturday, February 22, 2014
Yea Sigh
"Yea Sigh," she said as we walked through the door home from our travels. She threw her arms around my waist and continued, "being home is a yea (toothy grin) and a sigh (heavy, exaggerated exhale). Do you know what I'm saying Mom? Do you?"
Yes, I know what you're saying Bit. I know it perfectly and exactly with every fabric of my being. Bittersweet is a fact of most of life and a constant in my every day. It is a plant, a taste and a feeling. Truthfully, it's a feeling I have more than any other. I aim to be. here. now, but it's a constant struggle to stay in this moment without looking back longingly. Without missing or pining. Without languishing or lamenting. It's simply the way we're wired.
I too felt melancholy that our family vacation was coming to an end, but I also felt peace wash over me in warm waves the closer we got to home. There are stresses that come with traveling that children are immune to, and comforts of home that children have not yet grown to appreciate. I missed my cats, my bed even though it is a queen and not a king, and my quiet life. I am grateful for any opportunity to meet new people and places and experiences, but at the end of the day, weekend or week, I am happy to come home. And I wouldn't want it any other way.
Friday, February 21, 2014
Grateful Friday
Today I give thanks for...
A wonderful family vacation spent skiing at Vail and Beaver Creek, and my brother and sil for planning it and pulling it off seamlessly. Everything was sublime.
The majestic Rocky Mountains of Colorado. We were in God's country.
Miss Bit took 2 days of lessons and progressed from a level 1 to a level 4. She loved being on skis, and cannot wait to get to a level 5 so she can get some poles. She was fast and fearless just like her brother.
Ski school. Specifically, Brian and Jason, her knowledgeable instructors.
T. Bone was a snowboarder until this season. He switched to skis this year, and he kept up with his Dad and even his Uncle on many a black diamond run. He is also a big fan of terrain parks, back bowls and tree skiing, which he captured thanks to his GoPro. I nearly had a heart attack watching some of the footage. It is not for mothers or the faint of heart.
Helmets. And goggles.
I gravitated to the greens. I prefer runs with names like Cinch, Solitude and Dally to Ripsaw and Fool's Gold. I hadn't skied in 15 years. In some respects it's like riding a bike, but I was never on the road to the Tour de France so I embraced my limited abilities and managed to stay mostly upright and moving forward. Without a need for speed, I was able to enjoy the scenery and clear my head. Still exhilarating in my opinion.
Coach for his patience as I worked to get my ski legs back.
Ski patrol. Bill came to my rescue when an out of control teenager careened into me and lodged his skis beneath and between mine. As he pulled to free his skis, he forced my legs further and further apart until I was doing the splits and praying not to break my leg or dislocate my knee. Screaming too. Like a banshee actually. I asked him to release my boot with his pole, but by the look he gave me, I doubt he understood English, or else I scared him bad. Bill lifted me up as the kid raced to catch up with his friends, but not before Miss Bit gave him a real mean face.
Advil and daughters who have your back.
Overcoming fears. My first ride on the chair lift in over a decade is sure to be a family legend for generations to come. I'll let someone else tell it, but suffice it to say it may be the only time I've been called Wonder Woman!
Apres ski, or happy hour whether it consists of champagne toasts at the foot of the mountain on a spring-like afternoon sans jackets, Colorado Wildflowers as a sudden squall blows in and we huddle under blankets beside fire pits, homemade cookies hot out of the oven delivered by a team of chefs as we ski off the mountain, or rockin' loud music, IPAs and a family reunion at the packed from wall to wall Red Lion.
Hot tubbing before and after dinner. Soaking in the suds under stars or snowfall after skiing.
Russian showers. My brother and my daughter went from snowbank to steaming tub time after time. Also not for the faint of heart.
Bearcat Stables and dinner in their magical little clapboard cabin after a sleigh ride at gloaming. Twinkling lights can make anything cozy and quaint, and the comfort food was so delicious....the chicken, beef and gnocci, and especially the mixed berry cobbler.
Cinnamon tequila and coffee...it's numbingly good. Hot cocoa too.
Frank and Jessie (James) our Percheron pullers...smart, strong and so so beautiful, and a toast to Doc who passed on one year to the very day of our visit. RIP old fella.
Elk camouflaged throughout the landscape, but almost always outside the horse corral after dawn acting all nonchalant and trying to sneak some hay.
Early to bed and early to rise. Waking up to the sunrise over the mountains every morning. That jolt of Mother Nature lovin' energy is better than any cup of caffeine. Going to bed bone tired every evening after a day of working hard and playing hard.
Taking off my ski boots at the end of the day. Feet that hurt so good. Calves and quads too.
Smart Wool socks. Cute and warm and most importantly...dry.
A wardrobe of hats is all one needs. T. Bone got lots of high 5s for his Packer hat, and Coach was comped a drink or 2 for his Badger hat.
The best of both worlds. The hustle and bustle of Vail and BC are palpable and intoxicating, but so is the peace and serenity of the out of the way lodge we return to each night. The Cordillera Club is such a welcome remote retreat.
Our Suburban and my brother who was a most accommodating, accomplished chauffeur pot holes, back seat drivers, gate keepers and all.
Christys. If you go there, rent from them. They are a class act of down to earth employees who treat you like friends of the family.
Finally getting to dine at the infamous Irish Pub aka Grouse on the Green, T. Bone's favorite restaurant in the whole wide world. The wings were every bit as good as he's promised, and we all enjoyed the Scotch eggs too.
A ladies lunch at Sweet Basil with my sil. It was swanky sheek and so good. I enjoyed every drop of the roasted red pepper with goat cheese soup, and every bite of my kale salad with chicken, dried cherries, crispy onions, pancetta, Parmesan and a Dijon vinaigrette. The olive bread and savignon blanc perfectly completed the meal.
Kismet. Ogling a baby out and about in the village, and then realizing it was my cousin and his mama who made it from stormy Atlanta. I was so delighted to finally meet baby Wilder in all his cuteness. The kids were quite smitten as well.
Ice rinks in the middle of town and fire pits here, there and everywhere. Racks for skis instead of bikes. Ski-wear appropriate at all times and in all places.
Little altitude sickness, only 1 24 hour bug and 2 colds. I was mostly plagued, but able to almost keep up with the unafflicted.
Being under the weather, afforded me the time to curl up with my book and relax within mountain view. It was some of my favorite time while on vacation.
Few screens for the duration. Unplugging was good for the mind, body and soul.
Time to think and ponder and grow. Time to listen and to see. Time to laugh and smile and share. Time to cry and heal. Time to be real.
Thunder snow, and the way squalls pop up out of thin air..very thin air.
The way the big mountains make me feel so small and so much closer to God.
How it can be sunny and warm near the base of the mountain and like a blizzard at the top. I am grateful for a world that continues to awe, inspire and delight me.
My sweet, funny Valentines. The best gift of all was the making of memories. Also the exchange of copious amounts of candy.
Dinner at the big table in the lounge with the fire behind us and the music around us. The singer reminded me of a male Diana Krall as he belted out Van Morrison, Frank and Nat King Cole. It was quintessential cozy.
The way it all worked out so we could meet our Colorado cousins for lunch in Golden on our way out of town. We talked fast while the kids played a quick few games of pool making the most of what little time we had.
We made it home on time despite the fact there was a winter storm warning at home and most other flights were delayed or cancelled.
Luck and angels smiling down upon us for the entire trip.
Monday, February 10, 2014
2 day pass
the weekend was full of spontaneity.
play dates filled our days and sleepovers our nights.
t. bone begrudgingly attended the valentine's dance at school only because all his friends were going.
never a good reason, and yet in this case, a very good one.
when i dropped him off, he reminded me that pick up was 9 o' clock sharp.
yada yada I said as if I am ever late.
then the phone woke me out of a sound snooze at 9:20 and snapped me out of smugness.
it was t. bone wondering where his ride was.
c'est la vie coach said as he left to chauffeur.
i went straight back to sleep shamefully.
miss bit was delighted for the invite to the hit the mall with her friend saturday.
the girls and asaint dad had fun bowling, shopping and lunching.
t. bone celebrated a friend's birthday at the gym.
we got a gang together for sledding late on the snowy afternoon at my brother's encouraging.
my fam, my brother and sil, a nephew and miss bit's friend all bundled up in our cold weather gear to enjoy the fresh air and fresh fallen snow.
we've had so much snow and constant frigid temperatures that i think we've adjusted.
now negative 4 is the new 20 around here.
before long we were down 1 sled and 1 tobbogan, but that didn't stop us.
getting snow down my back did give me pause.
i felt like a kid again in both the good and the not so good ways.
at home we thawed out over hot steaming toddies.
hot cocoa with extra marshmallows for the kids and a tom and jerry or two for the of age.
we ordered our favorite pizza and called it a perfect day.
and it was.
sunday was pancakes for breakfast quickly followed by sunday school.
coach and i bundled up again for a brisk and bright lakefront walk.
between loads of laundry, i started packing.
i hate packing more than anything.
and i don't even pack.
i assemble.
i think coach hates packing more than i do cuz' he actually has to fit everything in the suitcases.
and i think bringing 6 pair of shoes/boots for 5 days is reasonable!
i made spaghetti sauce and pasta fagioli for dinner.
i knew the kids would quip about all the beans in the stoup.
and i was fine having lots of leftovers to heat up all week since the kitchen is mostly closed at casa wags and the fridge is close to bare.
after dinner, coach and i snuck in an episode of homeland.
i had to rewind the episode numerous times because i kept nodding off.
i blame all the fun, fresh air, packing and pasta for the sudden onset of narcolepsy.
.
play dates filled our days and sleepovers our nights.
t. bone begrudgingly attended the valentine's dance at school only because all his friends were going.
never a good reason, and yet in this case, a very good one.
when i dropped him off, he reminded me that pick up was 9 o' clock sharp.
yada yada I said as if I am ever late.
then the phone woke me out of a sound snooze at 9:20 and snapped me out of smugness.
it was t. bone wondering where his ride was.
c'est la vie coach said as he left to chauffeur.
i went straight back to sleep shamefully.
miss bit was delighted for the invite to the hit the mall with her friend saturday.
the girls and a
t. bone celebrated a friend's birthday at the gym.
we got a gang together for sledding late on the snowy afternoon at my brother's encouraging.
my fam, my brother and sil, a nephew and miss bit's friend all bundled up in our cold weather gear to enjoy the fresh air and fresh fallen snow.
we've had so much snow and constant frigid temperatures that i think we've adjusted.
now negative 4 is the new 20 around here.
before long we were down 1 sled and 1 tobbogan, but that didn't stop us.
getting snow down my back did give me pause.
i felt like a kid again in both the good and the not so good ways.
at home we thawed out over hot steaming toddies.
hot cocoa with extra marshmallows for the kids and a tom and jerry or two for the of age.
we ordered our favorite pizza and called it a perfect day.
and it was.
sunday was pancakes for breakfast quickly followed by sunday school.
coach and i bundled up again for a brisk and bright lakefront walk.
between loads of laundry, i started packing.
i hate packing more than anything.
and i don't even pack.
i assemble.
i think coach hates packing more than i do cuz' he actually has to fit everything in the suitcases.
and i think bringing 6 pair of shoes/boots for 5 days is reasonable!
i made spaghetti sauce and pasta fagioli for dinner.
i knew the kids would quip about all the beans in the stoup.
and i was fine having lots of leftovers to heat up all week since the kitchen is mostly closed at casa wags and the fridge is close to bare.
after dinner, coach and i snuck in an episode of homeland.
i had to rewind the episode numerous times because i kept nodding off.
i blame all the fun, fresh air, packing and pasta for the sudden onset of narcolepsy.
.
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Saturday, February 8, 2014
Sunny and Snowing
It's sunny and snowing. The finest little flakes are falling despite the fact that it's bright and cloudless. I just ran to get donuts for the kids in my pajamas. Pajamas that are clearly pajamas. Both of these seemingly unrelated facts perfectly define my mood today.
I'm out of sorts.
Woebegone rarely defines my Saturday state of mind, but when I woke before dawn this morning, the thoughts started streaming before I could get back to dreaming. The coulds shoulds woulds took hold before I could turn them off. Four hours and two cups of coffee later and I'm right where I started.
Except even in the few minutes I've been sitting here trying to clear my muddled mind, the clouds have moved in and the world...the day is starting to make more sense.
All I can say is that I love when the Internet...when the universe is listening to me when I amtalking writing.
I also love when the universe is talking and I am listening.
Today I am straining, but finally faintly hearing: This is the day the lord has made let us rejoice and be glad for it.
I'm out of sorts.
Woebegone rarely defines my Saturday state of mind, but when I woke before dawn this morning, the thoughts started streaming before I could get back to dreaming. The coulds shoulds woulds took hold before I could turn them off. Four hours and two cups of coffee later and I'm right where I started.
Except even in the few minutes I've been sitting here trying to clear my muddled mind, the clouds have moved in and the world...the day is starting to make more sense.
All I can say is that I love when the Internet...when the universe is listening to me when I am
I also love when the universe is talking and I am listening.
Today I am straining, but finally faintly hearing: This is the day the lord has made let us rejoice and be glad for it.
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Friday, February 7, 2014
Grateful Friday
Today I give thanks for...
Cupcakes for breakfast today. Happy Anniversary C! I know I promised to save you a bite of the chocolate chili number, and I tried. I tried. Take my word...it was good!
Homeland. I broke down and ordered season 2. I did so under the guise that it was a Valentine's gift for my guy, but then I gave it to him unwrapped the other night and we've watched several episodes since. I tell you it's more addicting than chocolate, and every bit as much for me as for him.
New words. This week I added fata morgana (mirage), galley west (into destruction or confusion) and sitzmark (a depression left in the snow by a skier falling backward) to my lexicon. I hope I don't see a fata morgana while I'm skiing high in the mountains that sends me into galley west aka as a black diamond run, and then causes me to make a sitzmark in the fresh powder.
We're Rocky Mountain bound soon.
Family vacations.
Mountains.
New experiences and beautiful vistas.
Our gas/electric bill was only $334.91 this month. Sadly, thanks to the stubborn polar vortex, I was expecting it to be much worse.
Thirteen year old T. Bone lost his last 4 baby teeth this week. Lost as in had them pulled by the dentist to the tune of $250! At least we were all cavity free.
Flexibility at work. I was able to take off Monday afternoon to go for a walk and out for a coffee with Jess who had a really rough weekend. She's always there for me, and it was important for me to be there for her. There were a few tears, but also some laughs thanks to Juan Pablo. Yes...we ended up in my family room watching the Bachelor. It's pure comedy I tell ya.
The Best of Jimmy Fallon. He's good for a laugh too, and quite the performer too.
Ted's going to a school Valentine's dance tonight. I remember 7th grade dances...hot and hormonal. Hot as in sweaty, and hormonal as in giddy if he asked you to dance and gloomy if he didn't. There were times that I recall never wanting Stairway to Heaven to end and just as many praying that it would hurry up and be over. I don't think he will slow dance tonight with any girls though.
Lil got the part. She's going to be one of the orphans in her school's production of Annie. Yay!
Trader Joe's Peppermint bark. We just opened the tin we got for Christmas and it is some of the best!
New thick and creamy lotion that is working wonders for my dry and sensitive skin.
Thanks to This blog post I have this book on hold for me at the library. How have I never read this? I am taking it on vacation with me and dreaming of devouring it beside the lodge fire.
Cupcakes for breakfast today. Happy Anniversary C! I know I promised to save you a bite of the chocolate chili number, and I tried. I tried. Take my word...it was good!
Homeland. I broke down and ordered season 2. I did so under the guise that it was a Valentine's gift for my guy, but then I gave it to him unwrapped the other night and we've watched several episodes since. I tell you it's more addicting than chocolate, and every bit as much for me as for him.
New words. This week I added fata morgana (mirage), galley west (into destruction or confusion) and sitzmark (a depression left in the snow by a skier falling backward) to my lexicon. I hope I don't see a fata morgana while I'm skiing high in the mountains that sends me into galley west aka as a black diamond run, and then causes me to make a sitzmark in the fresh powder.
We're Rocky Mountain bound soon.
Family vacations.
Mountains.
New experiences and beautiful vistas.
Our gas/electric bill was only $334.91 this month. Sadly, thanks to the stubborn polar vortex, I was expecting it to be much worse.
Thirteen year old T. Bone lost his last 4 baby teeth this week. Lost as in had them pulled by the dentist to the tune of $250! At least we were all cavity free.
Flexibility at work. I was able to take off Monday afternoon to go for a walk and out for a coffee with Jess who had a really rough weekend. She's always there for me, and it was important for me to be there for her. There were a few tears, but also some laughs thanks to Juan Pablo. Yes...we ended up in my family room watching the Bachelor. It's pure comedy I tell ya.
The Best of Jimmy Fallon. He's good for a laugh too, and quite the performer too.
Ted's going to a school Valentine's dance tonight. I remember 7th grade dances...hot and hormonal. Hot as in sweaty, and hormonal as in giddy if he asked you to dance and gloomy if he didn't. There were times that I recall never wanting Stairway to Heaven to end and just as many praying that it would hurry up and be over. I don't think he will slow dance tonight with any girls though.
Lil got the part. She's going to be one of the orphans in her school's production of Annie. Yay!
Trader Joe's Peppermint bark. We just opened the tin we got for Christmas and it is some of the best!
New thick and creamy lotion that is working wonders for my dry and sensitive skin.
Thanks to This blog post I have this book on hold for me at the library. How have I never read this? I am taking it on vacation with me and dreaming of devouring it beside the lodge fire.
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Monday, February 3, 2014
2 day pass
this weekend was:
welcoming february and one tired t. bone
he returned home happy after 3 days and 2 nights at camp
curling up on the couch beside him to watch captain phillips for the second time in 2 days
intense and scary and also not a factual depiction in my opinion, but entertaining nonetheless
waking up to snow early saturday morning
earlier than i planned courtesy of tigger who woke me and then promptly went back to bed
carving out time for long workouts both days
coach taking miss bit for her first ski lesson
graduating from the bunny hill in 30 minutes
she loved gliding down the mountain, and it turns out she's a natural just like her brother
two pioneer woman cookbooks offering inspiration on a snowy saturday
ree grates on me, but i enjoy her recipes
what's not to love about a pot of mushrooms simmering in a bottle of bordeaux all day
or slightly spicy dressing for a simple wedge salad
or caramel brownies that needed quite a lot of tweaking, but were good enough to be gone
or hot beef sandwiches topped with provolone, pepperoncini and carmelized onion
a full church and a meaningful sunday sermon
a little annie wannabe reciting daddy warbucks and singing maybe with coach daddy
a full house for the game
a very boring super bowl and lackluster commercials
enjoying the company and the homemades just the same
warm, full, happy, together.
welcoming february and one tired t. bone
he returned home happy after 3 days and 2 nights at camp
curling up on the couch beside him to watch captain phillips for the second time in 2 days
intense and scary and also not a factual depiction in my opinion, but entertaining nonetheless
waking up to snow early saturday morning
earlier than i planned courtesy of tigger who woke me and then promptly went back to bed
carving out time for long workouts both days
coach taking miss bit for her first ski lesson
graduating from the bunny hill in 30 minutes
she loved gliding down the mountain, and it turns out she's a natural just like her brother
two pioneer woman cookbooks offering inspiration on a snowy saturday
ree grates on me, but i enjoy her recipes
what's not to love about a pot of mushrooms simmering in a bottle of bordeaux all day
or slightly spicy dressing for a simple wedge salad
or caramel brownies that needed quite a lot of tweaking, but were good enough to be gone
or hot beef sandwiches topped with provolone, pepperoncini and carmelized onion
a full church and a meaningful sunday sermon
a little annie wannabe reciting daddy warbucks and singing maybe with coach daddy
a full house for the game
a very boring super bowl and lackluster commercials
enjoying the company and the homemades just the same
warm, full, happy, together.
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