Grateful Friday

Today I give thanks for...

Going from cozy in my bed to sitting at my desk with a cup of coffee in 25 minutes. Yep, I overslept and yep I showered and I only sped a little on my way to work.

Broody morning skies.

Pumpkins on porches. Halloween is for almost everyone and I love seeing all the participation.

 

There will be a game five on the Brewer's home turf. I'm telling myself this is the divine plan so they can clinch the division in Milwaukee.

Miss Bit will be starting her big girl life with a job after graduation. She received a very nice offer from the firm she interned with last summer. In the mean time with the what's next question answered, she can really enjoy her senior year.

 

She will be in Milwaukee!

It was a good and full week.

Monday night date with my guys. Ted got us tickets to the Brewer game so we took him to dinner before.

Mike made a batch of some of the best chili I've ever had. Jess made an impromptu stop Wednesday just in time for dinner.

Lots of Jess time. She bribed me to see the Taylor Swift movie Friday by promising dinner after. I enjoyed the movie enough to pop for the bill...it was my turn. That Taylor is a boss.

Mike washed and waxed all three cars Sunday.

I found my Li Bien ornaments. They sell them at World Market now so the tradition Nanny started will continue. 

Mischievous Murph. It's a good thing she's so stinkin' cute! Next weekend we are cat sitting. Four cats will be quite an adventure. We'll also have a houseful of girls. Nothing makes me happier than a full house.

 

Grateful Friday

Today I give thanks for...

Probiotics. They work.

Cheese and crackers for dinner. It's my go to when I'm home alone.

Leftover Mama Mia's. Loie loaded us up when she was here and we're still working on all the Italian comfort food.

New PJs. It's been awhile since I found a pair that I look forward to putting on at night. The Gap gets it right because they sell them as separates. I can get petite pants and a long shirt. That's my perfect pair.

A handy man to get shit done.

Sunday night football and Sunday family dinner.

 

Memory Lane drives. Loie and I went down the rabbit hole. So many old haunts.

Makeovers. My aunt understands make up. I do not. She gave me some good tips and I just happened to have the very same system she has. I'm thinking she recommended it to me.

Spring water my dad pumped outta the ground. It is so clean and delicious!

Swinging Door sammies. The pork chop with Brussel's was the bomb. A late lunch with Ted and Meryl a treat. Loie finally met the fam's latest additions: Meryl, Manny and Murphy.

 

True crime. My faves 20/20 and 48 Hours are back with new content.

Lavender. My aunt brought me fresh dried from her yard and a pretty bowl to keep it in. I have it next to my bed for sweet dreams.

Gus caught a mouse last night. He caught it several times. We were trying to get him to release it so we could scoop it up, but Gus was faster. The poor little guy finally high tailed it underneath the refrigerator. In the wee hours he came out and was caught again. This is Gus since the successful cat and mouse game. He will not take his sight off the frig. I'm waiting for him to crash.

 Hazel has her eyes on the flowers!

Another date with Jess tonight. Who are we go out girls?!

Lots of good games for our Wisconsin teams this weekend. 

 

October 2...A Sad One

The sun didn't make sense this morning after I read Lily's text. Her close friend and roomie lost her mother overnight. We knew it was imminent, but I know all too well that we can never be prepared for a loss of this magnitude. It levelled me when I was forty. K will turn twenty-two tomorrow. My heart is breaking for her. Them.

For some reason I was overcome with emotion when I saw a crane in flight. Maybe it was my skyward gaze, the majestic bird flying alone, or the song in cue:

Our love turns to rust

We're beaten and blown by the wind
Blown by the wind
Oh, and I see love
See our love turn to rust
Oh, we're beaten and blown by the wind
Blown by the wind
Oh, when I go there
I go there with you

It's all I can do 

I ugly cried my way to work as I sang out of tune. For some reason the car is my ground zero. 

Seventeen years and three days ago was a similarly sunny day. I remember feeling the incongruity of the sky's brightness and the dark cloud that was my stark new reality. Life as usual felt like a personal assault on my grief. I couldn't fathom laughing, singing, playing, just enjoying life again, but slowly, shyly I did. This loss isn't about me, and yet I am feeling it viscerally. 

Today is a sad day.

October First

I was about to scoot out the door when I got the no power at the office call. Stay home. I've been trying to get to work earlier. Trying being the operative word here. This morning was rough. I'll spare details, but it had to do with staying up too late and my alarm and this gray morning that begged more sleep. 

I resisted and for that I'm grateful. Now I had the whole day ahead of me...a welcome blank slate. I sat with my coffee taking in the neighborhood sounds as delivered on the morning breeze. The expected drone of so many lawn mowers and the chipmunks chirp chirping away. Dog calls from every direction. All normal and then piercing sounds of skeins of geese remind me that despite the warm summer weather, here we are at the first of October.

It's my favorite month for many reasons...all of them good. I rallied for a stop at the farmer's market I have not paid a single visit to this summer. It used to be a weekly ritual. I was on a mission for tomatoes and I was picky. I haven't had a tomato sandwich yet this summer and that's all that was on my mind. I found a basket of beauts and a loaf of multi-grain bread from a local baker. Some green beans and zucchini too. In the next few weeks, I'll stock up on squash. When picked fresh from the ground and kept in a cool, dark place, they last for months. 

I felt like a drive. My country road color tour landed me at the apple farm. It's a family tradition to spend an afternoon picking our own, but I really wanted a half peck of Blondies and I knew what was left would be in the barn. There's still plenty of fruit on trees so there is a very good chance we'll be back later in the month to stock up for the winter. Fresh picked apples last for months too when stored in the frig. I'm sensing a theme here...the need to stock, nest and rest. Sounds about right.

The sandwich was well worth the wait and messy. The juicy ripe tomato tasted like summer. I vow to be.here.now every day of October. Here's to fall!